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how incredible, wonderful, and fearfully delightful you are? They should. And if they haven’t, consider yourself told. Just now. If you missed me saying it, look up at the previous line. See? It’s not even 6:30 in the morning and here I am, thinking about heating a plate of cajun curry oxtails and rice for […]

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It was 112 degrees F when I left home. I opened my car windows and within moments could feel sweat collecting on the backs of my legs: I regretted the oil moisturizer I’d put on after showering as my calves began to glisten and when the angle of the sun was just right to land […]

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He opened the notebook, revealing five names written in pencil. They were heavily scratched over so the full names were hidden behind gray rectangles. ‘I think I am ready to be serious with you. None of these,’ he gestured at the marks in the notebook with a disgusted expression, ‘were serious material, you know? I […]

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There’s Black Rose incense burning in the family room while a soothing mixture of essential oils diffuses in the hallway. I had a sandwich for breakfast: tuna on a Hawaiian roll with Irish sharp cheese, lettuce, tomato, and green onion. There’s jerk chicken marinading in the refrigerator. I pondered adding Irish Coffee to my morning […]

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Who can hook me up with Salma Hayek’s phone number? I need to call her right quick. No wait — I need to have a few other folks present when this conversation takes place because they all need to answer the questions I have. Or maybe it’s more that they all need to listen. The best […]

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You know that thing where you question everything about yourself? Yeah that. How’s your Wednesday going? It’s been a minute. Again. What had happened was I went to the doctor a couple weeks ago. I explained to him that pretty much every day I felt like I’d been beat with a bag of rocks. He […]

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When you take a moment and realize you are in a negative zone, what to do? Blog. So, hey. It’s been a minute. I was slouching like this, but got over it. Here’s what had happened was: Have you ever done something positive and the first thought that came to mind: No good deed goes unpunished. […]

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There are days when this is my situation: Don’t push me cause I’m close to the edge / I’m trying not to lose my head / It’s like a jungle sometimes / It makes me wonder how I keep from goin’ under… The reactions to the current US presidential incoming have kept me wanting to […]

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I got up this morning with the expectation of having an 8am video conference call, but after checking my email at 5:30, I discovered that my student needed to reschedule. It was chilly and raining outside so I threw on this giant blue robe and wandered out to my workspace. I’ll just check my other tasks […]

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